katie allison granju

I don’t want to sell anything, buy anything, or process anything as a career. I don’t want to sell anything bought or processed, or buy anything sold or processed, or process anything sold, bought, or processed, or repair anything sold, bought, or processed. You know, as a career, I don’t want to do that.

 

elliot and the dentist July 29, 2006

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 2:09 am

Elliot is scared of the dentist and has really needed some dental work (all my kids have worse-than-they-should-be teeth). The last dentist we saw was very abrupt with him and wouldn’t let me sit with him while he was being worked on. He got hysterical.

So I went looking for a dentist on my dental insurance who would at the very least let me stay with him and at best, would offer gas for anxious patients.

I found out that there were NO pediodontists on my insurance and that most only see kids six and under anyway. Elliot is 8.

So we finally settled on Dr. Dugger in Fountain City. She was recommended by several people (including Jon).

Right away I liked her. She was patient and communicative with Elliot. She never acted like his fears were silly or overblown. She lets me be with him at every step and she let Elliot watch while she cleaned Jane’s teeth the other day. He liked that a lot. She also never talks down to him.

Today he had to have the first of two decaying baby teeth extracted. He was so frightened that he tried to cling to the porch railing at her office and at first, refused to go inside. I peeled him off and we went in, with the assurance that if he really couldn’t deal, we would leave (Our pediatrician had already told me that we would have to send him to an oral surgeon who could put him under if he couldn’t deal with having this done in the dentist’s office).

H e was literally shaking throughout the procedure, but she helped him through it. Elliot’s dad and I stayed in the room with him.

Dr. Dugger’s assistants were just as good. She took it very slow and encouraged Elliot to tell her when he was uncomfortable.

He made it through and the tooth came out. I was so, so proud of him. I could tell he was proud of himself.

 
 

packing for the beach

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 1:56 am

I used to stress about packing for the beach. Now I don’t.

Tomorrow we are going to Tybee Island for the week (well, almost a week. I have to come back to work for the %%$&^^ election, which I forgot about when I scheduled vacation).

Anyway, all I am bringing for each family member is three t-shirts, three pairs of shorts, flip flops and a swimsuit or two. I take all clothes in one large garbage bag. Plastic. Yes, I said a large plastic garbage bag. I bring several extra plastic garbage bags for the wet clothes and towels that will come back. I bring sunscreen, shampoo, tooth brushes, tylenol and band aids. These travel in a plastic ziplock freezer bag. Reading material and beach chairs.

That’s it.

I learned this super low=stress approach to packing for the beach over years of practice as a mother taking kids to the beach. I used to bring our clothes to the beach house in several suitcases and backpacks. This assortment of luggae was unwieldy and they all came back wet and sandy. The plastic garbage bag approach works best for the beach.

 
 

dike newlin, RIP July 28, 2006

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 12:53 pm

I had never heard of this woman until JFM pointed this obit out today. I sure wish I’d known her.

From the NYT today:

July 28, 2006
Dika Newlin, 82, Punk-Rock Schoenberg Expert, Dies
By DOUGLAS MARTIN

Dika Newlin, who composed a symphony at 11, became a distinguished composer and musicologist and emerged, in her 70’s and 80’s, as a most unlikely punk rocker, died on July 22 in Richmond, Va. She was 82.

The cause was complications of a broken arm she suffered on June 30, said Sabine Feisst, a professor of musicology at Arizona State University who is writing a book on Dr. Newlin.

“It is hard to find out about me because I’m involved in so many different things,” Dr. Newlin said in an interview with The Richmond Times-Dispatch in 1996. One continuing thread: she was a professor at various universities, until her retirement from Virginia Commonwealth University two years ago.

Her latest incarnation was as leather-clad, bright-orange-haired punk rocker and occasional Elvis impersonator, belting out songs like “Love Songs for People Who Hate Each Other,” which she wrote herself. Her flamboyant image was not exactly dulled when she posed in her 70’s for a pinup calendar.

Dr. Newlin’s earlier prominence grew out of her studies as a teenager with the composer Arnold Schoenberg. Dr. Newlin, among the last surviving pupils of Schoenberg, wrote the entry on him for the Encyclopaedia Britannica.

Dr. Feisst called Dr. Newlin “one of the pioneers of Schoenberg research in America.” Dr. Newlin’s doctoral dissertation was published as the book “Bruckner, Mahler, Schoenberg” (1947, 1968). She also translated Schoenberg’s works from German to English, and her publication of diaries she kept as his student provide some of the most intimate glimpses of him.

Dr. Newlin’s own compositions reflect Schoenberg’s innovative approach. Those works include three operas, a chamber symphony, a piano concerto and numerous chamber, vocal and mixed-media works. In 1999, she sang in a costumed performance of Schoenberg’s “Pierrot Lunaire,” in her own English translation, in Lubbock, Tex.

In her punk incarnation, Dr. Newlin appeared in horror movies produced by Michael D. Moore in Richmond. In “Creep” (1995), directed by Tim Ritter, her character, clad in a leather motorcycle jacket, poisons baby food on a supermarket shelf.

Dr. Feisst confessed to finding this sort of thing “puzzling and disturbing” but said she came to view it as “all part of the package.”

Mr. Moore also directed “Dika: Murder City’’ (1995), a documentary about Dr. Newlin.

Dika Newlin, an only child, was born in Portland, Ore., on Nov. 22, 1923. Her name, chosen by her mother, refers to an Amazon in one of Sappho’s poems.

Her parents, both academics, soon moved to East Lansing, Mich., to teach at what is now Michigan State University. Dika could read dictionaries at 3, played the piano at 6 and began composing at 7.

She entered grade school at 5 and finished at 8. At 11, she wrote a symphonic piece, “Cradle Song.” Three years later, it was performed by the Cincinnati Symphony, with Vladimir Bakaleinikoff conducting.

She finished high school at 12 and was accepted as a college student by Michigan State, where, The New York Herald Tribune said in 1939, she had the highest I.Q. score in the school’s history. At the time of the article, she was in New York to hear one of her compositions performed at the World’s Fair.

After graduating from Michigan State at 16, she settled with her mother in Los Angeles so that she could attend the University of California at Los Angeles and study with Schoenberg, who taught there. She kept a diary, which she published as a book, “Schoenberg Remembered: Diaries and Recollections (1938-76),” in 1980.

Reviewing the book in The New York Times Book Review, Joan Peyser marveled at its “absolute ingenuousness,” saying Dr. Newlin seemed to have censored nothing.

In one entry, she tells how Schoenberg, an Austrian émigré she called Uncle Arnold, criticized her string-quartet style as “too pianistic.” She replied that she knew it wasn’t the best writing. The entry continues, “He replied, ‘No, it is not the best, nor even the second best — perhaps the 50th best, yes?’ ”

She earned her doctorate in musicology from Columbia at 22. She studied piano with Artur Schnabel and Rudolf Serkin and made a half-dozen piano recordings in the United States and Europe. Many years later, in 2004, some of her punk numbers were released on an album called “Ageless Icon: The Greatest Hits of Dika Newlin.”

Dr. Newlin, who never married, leaves no immediate family members. She has a surviving cousin and was close to her cat, Spot. She once kept eight or more cats. Reporters noted that she slept on a mattress on the floor with a medieval suit of armor dangling above.

She told The Richmond Times-Dispatch that she had always wanted to have a rock band, and hers surely carried her own brand. Who but Dr. Newlin could have taken the text Schoenberg used for the fourth movement of his second string quartet to use as punk lyrics for “Alien Baby”?

“I feel like a child more than I did as a child,” she said in an interview with People magazine in 2003. “I try more and more to live day by day, to do something because it feels good.”

 
 

diapering the bum

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 12:24 am

I used cloth diapers almost exclusively with all 3 of my children. “Disposable” diapers gross me out and I think soft, cotton diapers are just much nicer on a sweet baby bottom. And while I’m no tree hugger, throwing away thousands of nasty, plastic diapers just seems wrong to me.

Here’s an interesting article on the POLITICS OF DIAPERS in the U.S.

Das right…politics of diapering.

Quit your laughing now and go read the damn article.

 
 

the house! July 27, 2006

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 11:02 pm


the house!
Originally uploaded by kgranju.

By the end of next week, our house will really be ours. Jon closes on Friday.

Before we can close, however, the new roof has to go on and we just found out from the appraiser that a bunch of slightly peeling trim has to be scraped and repainted before closing (otherwise the house appraised great - at a price above what we are paying with no other issues noted).

So in the next week, the roofers will be rofing and poor Jon will be scraping and painting like crazy.

But we are both so excited. We both just LOVE the house and can’t wait until we and the children are all moved in.

The kids are very excited, too.

Here is some info on the house’s STYLE (Folk Victorian with craftsman details) and HISTORY

 
 

yay betsy b.!!!

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 7:03 pm


i …must…own….this…t-shirt!
Originally uploaded by kgranju.

Can I just say that I ***LOVE*** my “Don’t Hassel the Hoff” t-shirt that arrived in the mail yesterday? This has to be the coolest engagement present, like, evah!

(Don’t worry Jon. I won’t wear it around your parents ;-)

 
 

jon and his niece afton

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 1:22 pm


jon and afton
Originally uploaded by kgranju.

On vacation in South Carolina this week :-)

 
 

my house in urban renewal

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 11:12 am

Many thanks to my pal Matt Edens for featuring my house for sale in this wek’s Metro Pulse URBAN RENEWAL COLUMN.

 
 

helen helps jane collect firewood

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 3:08 am


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Originally uploaded by kgranju.

 
 

my babygirl and me

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Originally uploaded by kgranju.

 
 

wedding dresses July 26, 2006

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 10:57 pm

While Jon and I aren’t having formal attendants at our wedding, I wanted to get all the children I love involved. Here are some of the dresses I am considering for all the little girls who will be gathering around us as we say our vows (Jane, cousins, close friends’ daughters). It’s not easy to find a dress that’s comfy, cute, affordable and will come in sizes 2-10.

Which one do you like best?

 
 

andrea yates

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 9:03 pm

Thank God Andrea Yates’ new trial has ended today with a verdict of insanity for her.

Severe mental illness is a hell that this woman lived with for years prior to the (easily predictable, based on her history) psychotic break that led her to do this horrifying crime.

She had postpartum psychosis with previous babies and had been hospitalized more than once. She and her husband were advised in the strongest terms by her doctors NOT to have another baby, but he left his severely mentally ill wife home with 4 young children every day and then knocked her up with a 5th. Soon after that baby’s birth, she killed the children.

She needs to be in a locked mental hospital for the rest of her life and will be. But in my opinion, her now-ex-husband (remarried and a new father) bears tremendous responsibility for what happened. She was clearly, clearly crazy by every possible measure for several years before this happened and yet he continued to leave their children in her care every day while he went to work, and continued to impregnate her.

I have deep sympathy for Andrea Yates but not so much for Rusty Yates.

 
 

kate hearts jon

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 3:24 am


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Originally uploaded by kgranju.

 
 

elliot plays croquet with jon’s father

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 3:20 am


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Originally uploaded by kgranju.

 
 

another July 25, 2006

Filed under: archive — katie allison granju @ 8:38 pm


Jane and Sydney 026
Originally uploaded by kgranju.

Here’s another from the photos Ann took of the girls. I think this one is actually my favorite.

 
 
 

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