katie allison granju

I don’t want to sell anything, buy anything, or process anything as a career. I don’t want to sell anything bought or processed, or buy anything sold or processed, or process anything sold, bought, or processed, or repair anything sold, bought, or processed. You know, as a career, I don’t want to do that.

 

well sure, sometimes i FEEL like knocking them upside their heads… February 29, 2008

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A case in Hancock County in which a school administrator hit a student so hard the child needed medical attention is leading to a lot of discussion . Over at Roane Views, White’s Creek says:

When our first child is very young, all parents face decisions on how to raise, teach, and discipline them. To Spank or not to spank?

Most school systems have wisely eliminated corporal punishment for a couple of reasons. There’s no evidence it works and there are all sorts of opportunities for abuse. Why any school system still allows paddling elementary schools children is beyond me…

Coincidentally, this story broke the same day a new study was released indicating that children who are spanked are more likely to develop risky sexual behaviors as adults.

(For the record, I’m a mother to four kids, and I don’t believe in hitting them…or hitting anyone else in my family, for that matter.)

 
 

the big kids February 28, 2008

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H. and J. hanging out

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the girls

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J. and cousin E. read to their baby sisters and change baby. C.

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The vaccination decision February 27, 2008

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I was interested to read via this post from MamaTried that the government has quietly conceded a vaccination-autism link in at least one case. Thedetails are sealed, as are all cases that pass thru the special “vaccination court” that hears vaccine injury cases outside our general court system.

(For the record: C. is fully vaccinated, H. is fully vaccinated and J. and E. are partially vaccinated. Decisions were made on a child-by-child basis. E. didn’t start his vaccines ’til he was one year old.)

 
 

Trying to touch the snow

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(That’s C. with her grandmother this morning in Sevierville)

 
 

This would be waaaaay better than Led Zeppelin at Bonnaroo February 26, 2008

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Last night I was at a Cub Scout meeting with E., when I heard him discussing Bonnaroo with his buddy L.

E.: “Dude, you’re wrong, Jimi Hendrix is NOT playing Bonnaroo this year. He died, like, FORTY YEARS AGO!”

 
 

mamafied February 25, 2008

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Oh lordy, this baby is fussy.

She’s been fussing for days, which is quite a change from her usual cheery self. Nothing makes her very happy, and for the first time ever, she clearly wants Mama instead of anyone else. This is hard for her doting father, who takes care of her just as much as I do. I know part of it is developmental - babies go through a “mamafied” phase (that’s what we call it in our family) starting about now - but some of it is that she’s in some sort of distress. I don’t see any teeth, but from the drooling, gnawing on things and fussiness, I’m thinking teeth are imminent.

It’s interesting to observe that even in a family where both parents are equally involved in baby care (including actual hours alone with the baby), the baby still hits that certain phase where only mama will do. I’ll admit to a secret gratification, since I worried that with all the hours I have to work and be away from her, she might not be able to pick me out of a line-up. Clearly, that wasn’t a concern

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Now I just have to reassure her father that this, too shall pass. It’s hard when he’s used to being able to comfort her, and she won’t let him. I know the day will come when only Daddy will do, but for now, it’s all about the mama.

 
 

who doesn’t love pop songs about punctuation? February 22, 2008

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Yummy.

 
 

the baby front

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My friend Julya Johnson has launched a blog chronicling her second pregnancy:

My husband and I have chosen several things that are a bit unconventional this time, and I would love to share that journey with you. First, we decided not to find out the gender of the baby at our 20 week ultrasound. I have been assured by many folks in the older generation that the baby’s gender is one of the most wonderful surprises in this world. I want to know what that is like, so we are following their lead. That said, I find it so tempting to buy little girl outfits because they are so super cute!

The other unconventional route we are taking in this journey is the goal of a medication free water birth using a program called Hypnobabies. I have gotten all kinds of responses when I share this decision ranging from “are you crazy?” to “way to go!” to “tell me more!” Mostly, friends and family seem to think I have lost my mind …he he!

This is a new journey for me since the first go around I had a very traditional hospital birth with an epidural. That experience was nice, but I look forward to being free to move, eat and drink during labor this time. Also, birth is such a spiritual and life-changing event, and I can’t think of a more peaceful way to come into the world than a water birth.

 
 

the bad mama chronicles

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Whenever I hear another mother talk about taking her child(ren) for their “two year portrait” or whatever, I slink down in my seat a little. You see, In 16 years, I’ve only had my kids’ photos taken at a portrait studio maybe 3 times. I’m too lazy. Plus, I can’t figure the whole thing out. I see the coupons for portrait sittings and such and can’t determine what exactly that covers and whether I need to call ahead for an appointment, etc, etc. It just all seems terribly confusing and exhausting.

I do take lots and lots of pictures of the kids - and we have photos of the children plastered all over our walls at home, but very few of them are professionally done. Baby C. has never had one taken.

I am totally lusting after a really good SLR digital camera so I can improve my photo-taking skills (I am carefully watching Craigslist). I’d love to get more into photography. Then maybe I can pose C. in front of a sheet on some shag carpet and tell people Sears did it…

 
 

i am seriously considering drugging my dog

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We have two dogs: Fiat and Mabel. Fiat is a 5 year old Jack Russell mix and Mabel is a four year old pug mix. I’ve had both of them since they were young puppies. Both came from the animal shelter.

I often joke that they are the most obnoxious dogs on the planet…because they are. But Mabel is far less obnoxious than Fiat. Mabel often barks at people who are not there, she occasionally has an accident in the house, and she rarely comes when called, but she is generally calm and sweet.

Fiat often barks at people who are not there, looks for any opportunity to eat garbage, occasionally has an accident in the house, and NEVER comes when called….but he is also maniacally hyper. He never, ever, ever, EVAH stops moving. This means that unlike Mabel, who likes to take long naps on comfy chairs, Fiat spends all his waking hours in constant motion - moving, moving, moving. Even when he sits next to you to be patted, his feet are twitching. You would think this would get better as he’s gotten older, but it actually seems to be getting worse.

Yes, he’s been to obedience school. Yes, he gets plenty of exercise (large fenced yard). Yes, I have tried doing games and activities with him (he will chase the ball or stick but generally loses interest before getting where he was going). Yes, he is crate trained.

I am well aware that Jack Russells are very active dogs. I know many, many Jack Russells. They are one of my favorite breeds. But Fiat’s level of activity is beyond extreme. He cannot focus on anything or be still for even one second.

My cousin Julie is trying drug therapy with her corgi, Dana. They say the meds are really chilling Dana out. The name of the drug is “Reconcile” (amazing that someone’s full time job is to think of clever names for dog prozac), and frankly, I’m thinking of asking my vet about it for Fiat. Maybe he has dog ADHD? Maybe I am depriving him of reaching his full potential by keeping the drugs from him?

The idea is really sounding appealing.

 
 

busybusybusy February 21, 2008

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Over here.

 
 

my girl February 20, 2008

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She’s at her dad’s this week. I miss her like crazy.

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something i’m doing this week February 19, 2008

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Convergence week at UT’s College of Communications.

 
 

another one of the baby cousins

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